Fahmi grew to appreciate his friends at Ilsa Tari as his core support group during university. They provided him with an avenue to express himself and feel a sense of belonging when faced with the challenges of university life.
“The friends I have made in NUS Ilsa Tari ended up becoming my backbone for my entire university life. Life as a student is difficult and it’s tiring, but they made it a lot better. We danced together, we studied together, we laugh and cried together.”
Growing as a Leader
Leadership is a quality valued greatly in our society. The best leaders understand that it is not only direction, but also empathy, patience and resilience that define their role. In fact, developing such qualities not only makes students key assets to their CCAs, but also impacts the other areas of their lives.
Amanda’s transformation as a leader in the NUS Chinese Orchestra (NUSCO) brought out qualities of compassion and confidence which she applied in other areas of her life.
“I had the opportunity to interact with musicians from all walks of life; drawing from these experiences allowed me to become more empathetic towards my patients, as I am better able to understand them. The fact that music is a universal language also allows me to better connect with my patients, and we are able to share our memories and love for music with each other.
CFA and NUSCO have provided me with plenty of performance and leadership opportunities, which have made me much more comfortable with crowds — not just on stage but off stage as well. Being a doctor calls for having a confident front, especially in tense situations where my patients or patients’ relatives look to me for assurance. My performance opportunities have also taught me to discern varying expectations from different audiences, allowing me to be much more mature in public speaking and adapt my communication approach according to the situation.”